Public speaking is nerve-wracking, whether you’re a student or a CEO. There are many methods to combat the feeling of anxiety (which I’ll go into in a later post), but for a really great performance—butterflies notwithstanding—the key is to practice.
And not just any kind of practice. Practice under pressure.
Can your third draft make this guy smile?
It’s one thing to go over and over your speech by yourself in your dorm room or your office. With no one staring at you, it’s relatively easy to stay on track and perfect every phrase and nuance of delivery.
But then comes presentation day. And suddenly there are eyeballs and expectations and feedback of all kinds. And all that practice suddenly seems not quite so useful.
Below is a great article by Noa Kageyama, Ph.D. that outlines a study into the relationship between practice and putting (as in golf). It turns out that an effective way to improve performance under pressure is to practice under pressure, from the very beginning.
That way, you get used to the stress of performing before the big day arrives. Your nervousness may not go away entirely, but you learn how to control it, manage it, perhaps even turn the butterflies to your advantage (I promise, it is possible).
So, before your next speech or presentation, write yourself a first draft and then perform it immediately, in front of someone generous and loving. A friend, maybe, or your spouse. Or even your dog. Give yourself just enough stress that you feel the flutters, but in a safe, supportive environment with minimal real-life consequences.
Do this a few times, and you’ll be surprised how well you do when it’s time to present for real.
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